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July 22 2026 7:53 pm

Build Visa

I had fell either june 10 or 17th. Said earlier on the 10th. Refractured my spine, so I have been walking around with a back brace, moping about. for weeks now. I had an epiphany about this immigrant situation. We already know that a lot of them already do jobs such as building new housing tracts(even staying in them while building them). Also other jobs. They are already here, and need a solution to have some kind of compromise. All this fighting and really, the ones fighting for open boarders, can't give a care about them. Let's be honest about that. Maybe, there can be some kind of solution. Just getting my mind thinking about it all. There are some that value our values. That, is number one. Number two, the ones that keep getting catch and release etc., well they just must go home. What about a temporary build visa? not permanent, but the ones that build roads, schools, homes and other... Get a temporary "build or build america visa". Homes can be built new housing tracts for veterans and medium income families. Funded programs. Real Estate for these homes will not match the current home prices of other areas. A bit of a mismatch yes. An agreement if sold, under a limit for selling to other vets or middle income families only. Can include as programs before like teacher, police, nurse, EMT, fire etc..... Not an HOA, but having a common area for family gatherings, birthdays and co-op childcare.

Childcare payments can be made by gov. subsidy program for students training in specific caregiver or child care program. Allowed tips. Or totally internship no pay or just volunteer to rotate childcare, like a grandma who wants to watch kids. So mini kitchen and maybe bunkbeds in a room. Just starting a thought. Residents to keep area clean. Many different ideas can come from that. Contractor bids, etc for projects. Homes nowadays are built with cheap pressboard. Be honest. Someone can figure costs for hiring. etc.

Some immigrants offered build visas. Must list all family members living with them and friends and family members who live elsewhere in the country. legally and illegally in the country. Family members who actually live with them, also get a build visa. Allowed to work.

Homelesss shelters, americans only. no more santuary. Need to account for all who is here. I think that a temporary build visa to start to give a temporary stay in the country till the government can figure out the mess. Too many, Spread out everywhere. Need to get a handle on things.

I think personally, United States cannot afford illegals at this time because we are still in the early stages of rebuilding. But also need solutions to cut out all the crime, homelessness, and fighting between everyone. So think about that, and start working on solutions. No, won't interfere other than writing here, that solutions need to be resolved. And yes, some still need to go home. American values. We have the constitution of the United States, and what? Under God you say. That is the main american value. Many others stay and live here in peace, yet, many do not respect our values. Major corporations closing, cannot hardly get meds in some areas. The Elite are packing up and moving away. if something does come up as a solution, well, let's not pay 900. for one hammer alright? Anyways, let them fight over all of this chaos. Supposed to be on the same team here.

And about crime. You need to let them all do their jobs. You can't cry wolf later and no one answers because you sent them away. The few have to answer important calls. Just the lack of respect going on. Last year, I thought.. okay major corps shutting doors, maybe not too bad. Just start opening mom and pops stores again. But no. No can do. Robberies, damages, threats, and stolen goods resold on the sidewalks. And New York. forget about any kind of store surviving at all. Mark my words. Got that from prince phillip. Mark my words.. lol

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You are not looking at the real picture here. Probably won't like what I say and say, ridiculous. I am not into politics, ok? I was awakened. I have kept silent, till it was time. So here's what I am going to tell you what's going on right now. Because, you have overlooked something. Something vital. You could say, I am somebody's little good luck charm. I have been away studying scripture and healing. Anyways.. besides the point. So here is what I am going to say, so listen closely. You know why I am not on social media for this. Here goes..... What is going on with New York City right now. Of course, I want to post "Idiot". But no, no, no....Stop right there. Here is what you are not seeing that I can. See, I played dumb for years.. many years... At least when I needed to.. No, this is brilliance... cold, calculated pure brilliance to make you think what is going on out there, is innocent, and Stupid. No, Brilliance is when you can pull the wool over people's eyes, and get a slap on the face and called stupid. That, is what you do not see. It's not stupidity what you are seeing, it's calculated. Right in front of your eyes.. Chaos. Taking not only America down right there in plain sight and also the Downfall of New York. You need evidence. I suggest you do that quickly and then react swiftly. I am not talking about people that live there. I am talking about military or who needs to do what they need to do, when you get evidence. I am not saying what others say in public online that what destruction going on out there. Because everyone is saying the same thing, but they forgot the part that someone is playing stupid right in front of you..... Here is something else you need to think about. What did Iran just do? They threatened the Presiden'ts life. Look closer.... closer..... You are not looking at the bigger picture. It's big, real big, and that stupid one? he's just a pawn. Because it was the timing. Things set in place. And for now, keep the president away from New York. President Lincoln. JFk. Honor them. Do not forget. God did not call on me for nothing. Look Deeper. And Open Your Eyes. Same with ICE. Not talking about immigrants. Talking about criminals. The ones keeping the chaos and not letting ICE or police, do their job.. A big picture. you know that saying, " run around like a chicken with head cut off"? Well, this is going on all over the Western World, if not all around the world. Keeping you occupied with chaos. So, be smart. I am a journalist here. Not saying anything that others aren't saying except, look deeper. I keep editing while I am using my mind. I am not into conspiracy theories, I want facts. And definately not trying to cause panic or some crazy nut stuff. I will no longer post about this politics or matrix stuff. But, humanity., Humanity is important. Remember that saying, "stupid is, stupid does..." ? Acting stupid is sometimes a weapon. Also can protect you when you are in a fight or flight mode. I know. Sometimes my kindness is a bit naivity, but when I see.. I see... Psychology. You know when you see live court tv or when someone is being interrogated? Well, then you see that they conveniently have amnesia. So they say. That is an example of playing stupid. Unrelated to the article in general. Just giving you an idea of stupidity and trying to manipulate their way out of things. Now, also want to talk about something else. 9/11/ At the time this went down, I lived in the same house looking out the window, and hearing my grandmother say "I'm so cold". I heard her voice. I didn't hear voices. But heard her. I said out loud, " it's ok Nom. You are going home to heaven. You will be alright.

I don't remember if 9/11 happened just before this happened or just after. But it was a catalyst of something. The day of 9/11, the news was on live tv. I just happened to be walking past the livingroom and heard the news about 9/11 as it was happening. I did not know anyone in that catastrophe, or anyone living in New York, Manhattan. But as they were talking on the news, I hit the floor, dropped to my knees and couldn't stop crying. Balling. I think I cried off and on for more than a week. I feel pain. Empath. So, now as I am writing this. It is about humanity. Humanity.

I don't want people to get hurt anymore, as much as can be avoided. So, this is why I needed to write this out.

Peace out.

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July 8, 2026

Hello, Good Morning. Just a quick heads up on my life. I have a new friend I met out here. he is 31, I am 65. I let him know up front that he can go do events with me. Yes, handsome. I gave him the boundaries, of no intimacy. I said I am waiting to meet my special person. Not anyone from my past. I hope that he respects that request I made. Let's see how it goes. He made it clear what he wants. I said no. Anyways, it's just after 5 am and I have a lot of things to do. I will post new pics of places I go as it unfolds. Still have to hook up speech to text. and have videos to load later. I will write a post also later The post will be called "The knowledge of healthy eating and living. About holistic places I have worked at and the recognition of a truly remarkable boss. She was a magnetic being and she recognized me. So I will write that story later. Take care. Have a good day. Charla De Hart myshanbug Def Planet

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Happy July 4th everyone. A quick note. The digital world. Let me tell you who I am. Well, just about the digital world anyways. I was the original in selling Ebooks online. I started on Ebay. It was really cool, because my mentor at the time, offered to buy all my material. I was stubborn and said no. About this website. It was originally built in 2007. Rebuilt in 2015. Overhauled in 2024. Yes, no other members. I use it now to post my work. When it was originally built and still is... It was equipped with integration. It override the facebook concept, Google Plus which didn't last, MySpace, Dating sites, Free Stores, overriding the stores you pay online for your own little stores.Fir example, when Shopify first came out, I upgraded and reconfigured my site. lol. Live concerts and live chat, live performances. It did have gaming section,. temporarily removed,. It was integrated and built to override all the social media sites, and also be able to add them in if you wanted to on your profile. I build websites, design, and was a big hitter in internet marketing when it first began. I started a REAL working, legalized casino online. Designed it. It was the time when Pirates of The Carribean first came out. I named the casino after the movie. It was called, The Black Pearl Casino. I had to sell it and if it does still exhist, it is not the same. At that time, I quit all my work and decided to do a regular job. The casino was 200. per month and I had no advertising funds. Now, you can advertise freely on all social media platforms, but back then, they did not have it. I chose my kids over my creativity. There's much more about me and I will write about it later. Temember Craigslist? lol I remember too. Integrated that till there was so much scams on it.. Sadly, Bandwith. A serious problem. The more a site runs, the more it costs. The more people on it, the more expensive to run. So, I build my own computer to run it on my own. Yet, I stopped that dream entirely. Now, just post here on my own to tell my story. The Entrepreuer. Later when I can. I did teach people how to start their own business without a dollar. I will post about it soonly. Take Care. Charla De Hart myshanbug

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June 3, 2026 Author: Charla De Hart

Controlling The Shadow. When You Choose Light, Over Darkness

Going through my spiritual training, I have learned how to control the darkness. How does someone possess both dark and light?

Well, it can happen through many things. It can come from hardship, betrayal, lies,jealousy, anger, poverty or a low-mindset of being poor. I recommend the book, Rich Dad, Poor Dad. By Robert Kiyosaki A personal finance book that contrasts the financial philosophies of Kiyosaki's "rich dad" (his best friend's father) and "poor dad" (his biological father) to teach readers about financial literacy, building wealth, and financial independence. The book argues that the poor and middle class work for money, while the rich have money work for them, emphasizing the importance of investing in assets, starting businesses, and understanding the difference between assets and liabilities. It challenges conventional wisdom, like the idea that a high income guarantees wealth, and promotes a new financial mindset. I read the book years ago, being an entreprenuer, taking Ted Talk seminars and courses, etc. But, also I have always had that mind frame of Being Poor, Is just a frame of mind. I used to be jealous in the past, many years ago. But it wasn't about flirting, it was about giving others more attention and me none. I have learned throughout the years, and studied relationships, since I am a hardcore person that is an incurable romantic with unconditional love, I had expected that in return. Yet, never happened. I have trained myself into Calm. Steady, Observant. Growth, maturity. I was totally and happily content being alone since 2011, until I got catfished on social media recently, and wanted to open myself up to love again. Choosing Light over dark, is a spiritual thing. Sometimes you have to sit with that darkness and just use it to fuel your light. My ancestors, and guardians, well, they are not nice. I have seen them or heard what they had done, by just me acknowleding a "who done it", or they just watch. And they do it anyway. Here is a few things I know that they have done. A man who used to abuse my best friend. I remember the time one night I was having a friend party at my house, and he was walking around drunk and decided to take off all his clothes and walk around the party holding a paper plate with a hole in it being disgusing. The life of the party till he hit her. then came up to me, grabbed my arm and through me down. I stood up, picked him up, and threw him across the room. It was a supernatural strength. I was tiny, tall, petite. I moved away, didn't think about him and got a call that he had passed. He was split into two between two boulders. They also burned down a house in Iowa, while I lived in California. My first marriage, very abusive physically, mentally had the old place back out there. No, he wasn't out there, he to was in California. When I got away from him, long story, tell another day. Ii released my pain and moved on. I was never about revenge. My mind resets and blanks out trauma. And, no, sometimes that is not healthy, can cause anxiety, PTSD. What else did my ancestors do.. blew up a car. Apparently, it may not have had oil in it. I have always been a good person, a nice person, yet, my ancestors or guardians, karma. Always steps in., Not to be bizarre or ridiculous, those are a few examples. There were many. Too many to be coincidences. It's wierd, wild, strange. I move on and I can be out having fun, dancing, laughing.. and karma comes back with ugliness. I don't even think about it afterwards and things happen. My good heart overrides the bad. Living on faith, I don't wish bad upon anyone. Going through a spiritual journey has taught me to use pain into power and not let such negative situations distort reality. And yes, you can say that sounds crazy. I think it's crazy. I might come back and edit or add to this later. Have things to do. Take care. myshanbug Def Planet.

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Heading out for the day.. So beautiful outside. Strapping on my back braxce. Hope your day is good too. Charla De Hart

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JUNE 30 2026

YES! I HAVE GOT CORN GROWING IN MY GARDEN.

I HAVE BEEN FORTUNATE THE MOST HIGH HAS BEEN

WATERING THIS FOR ME WHILE i RECOVER. REALLY EXCITED..WEEEEE.

I HAVEN'T BEEN ABLE TO GET OUT THERE, SO THIS COOL MIRACLE

OF RAIN HAS KEPT THIS GARDEN GROWING. SOOO

ECSTATIC HAVING GOD WATERING MY GARDEN. I CAN'T WAIT TO SHARE THE

ABUNDANCE WITH MY NEIGHBORS. THEY HAVE BEEN

SO KIND. MY NEIGHBORS ACROSS FROM ME, BROUGHT ME A 

TURKEY DINNER A FEW DAYS AFTER i MOVED IN. AND THE NEIGHBOR

NEXT DOOR WHO LIKES TO SCREAM AT A FEDEX DRIVER IF THEY ARE DELIVERING

PACKAGES TO ME, THEY ACTUALLY ARE QUITE NICE. DELIVERIES, ALMOST DAILY

KEEP PARKING IN THEIR DRIVEWAY INSTEAD OF MY DRIVEWAY, GETS HIM PRETTY MAD.

I GUESS THE TRUCKS CREATE POTHOLES BECAUSE OF THEIR WEIGHT.

lOL, THE FIRST NIGHT WE MOVED IN, MY NEIGHBOR PULLED A GUN ON MY FAMILY FOR PARKING

IN THEIR DRIVEWAY, BUT THEY WERE MOVING FURNITURE IN FOR ME

AND MAYBE THEY THOUGHT IT WAS AN INVASION. IT WAS ABOUT 30 FAMILY MEMBERS WERE HERE, 

QUICKLY MOVING EVERYTHING IN. bUT, A FEW DAYS AGO, WE HAD A CONVERSATION, AND HE WAS SO KIND.

KNEW ABOUT MY NEWLY FRACTURES AND SAID IF i EVER NEEDED ANYTHING, THEY WOULD HELP. wHAT A RELIEF!

I THOUGHT HE WAS A BIT CRAZY, AND WAS SCARED FOR HIS KIDS, BUT ALLSWELL NOW.. i DON'T HAVE TO LOCK THE

FRONT DOOR ANYMORE.. LOL

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I am Healing

Well, I suppose I have

some explaining to do.

3 Sundays ago, I believe 

May 10, I went flying, and 

the impact was so brutal 

that I ended up with 

spinal fractures, and a sore 

head. Cannot move

around much. Maybe 10

more weeks max? So 

mostly watching motivational

videos and resting alot, since

I cannot move around..

Didn’t help

when I tried to do situps the 

other day thinking I am fine. lol

I know, the universe is going 

to tell me stop complaining.

Of course there’s a lady out there 

that is obsessed with my Ex

 and wears a mask

pretending to be him..

Just been keeping phone off 

and resting. Oh, And this picture, 

is what

my vision has showed me a few 

times when I am in and out of sleep. 

I am like a little bird, 

in a nest, floating to the stars. 

It’s probably because I watch so many 

meditation song videos, my mind 

came up with this.

myshanbug, Def Planet Charla DeHart

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RESTING IS ONE OF THE MOST IMPACTFUL PRACTICES WE CAN ADOPT FOR SELF-COMPASSION, EMOTIONAL WELL-BEING, COLLECTIVE CARE, AND ENVIRONMENTAL REPAIR.

WHEN WE TAKE A FEW MOMENTS EACH DAY TO PAUSE, TO FEEL OUR EXHALES, TO LISTEN TO THE SOUNDS THAT ARE PRESENT, OR TO NOTICE THE WAY LIGHT BENDS AROUND THE CORNER, WE ARE ENGAGING IN A SUBVERSIVE ACT OF RECLAIMING THE INNATE WISDOM WITHIN OUR BODIES AND WITHIN THE NATURAL WORLD: THE WISDOM OF REST. 

WHEN WE PRACTICE RESTING, WE ALLOW OURSELVES TO FOLLOW AN ORGANIC RYTHM THAT HAS THE POWER TO HEAL, TO RESTORE, AND TO LIBERATE US FROM THE OPPRESSION OF OVERWORK AND CONSTANT PRODUCTIVITY OF OUR CULTURE. 

WHEN WE PRACTICE RESTING, WE ENGAGE IN REVOLUTIONARY ACTS THAT CREATE SOCIAL AND ENVIRONMENTAL CHANGES, RIPPLING OUR TO SHIFT ALL ASPECTS OF LIFE. 

YET MOST OF US WILL SAY, ON ANY GIVEN DAY, THAT WE SIMPLY CANNOT TAKE THE TIME TO REST. I GET IT. i'VE BEEN THERE.

I HAVE BEEN ON THE BURNOUT TRAIN MORE TIMES THAN I CARE TO ADMIT. I HAVE STRUGGLED TO THE ADDICTION TO WORK, TO BEING OF SERVICE, AND TO SOCIAL MEDIA. 

I HAVE PUSHED MYSELF TO THE POINT OF BEING BEDRIDDEN MORE THAN ONCE. I HAVE FALLEN INTO THE TRAP OF BELIEVING IF I JUST DO MORE, HELP MORE, WORK MORE, AND KEEP PUSHING PAST MY LIMITS. 

I WILL FINALLY FEEL LIKE I AM ENOUGH. AND THEN I WILL BE ABLE TO RELAX.

WE ARE EXHAUSTED. WE ARE WEARY. 

OUR BODIES NEED REST. OUR MINDS NEED REST.

OUR HEARTS NEED REST. OUR RELATIONSHIPS NEED REST. OUR CREATIVITY NEEDS REST. OUR CULTURE NEEDS REST. OUR EARTH NEEDS REST.

THE PROMISING NEWS IS THAT THE VALUE OF REST IS GRADUALLY ON THE RISE IN OUR COLLECTIVE CONSCIOUSNESS. ENOUGH OF US ARE RECOGNIZING THAT FEELING DEPLETED AND PERPETUALLY EXHAUSTED DOESN'T HAVE TO BE OUR BASELINE. 

ENOUGH OF US ARE TIRED OF BEING SICK AND TIRED AND ARE CHOOSING TO REST, DESPITE EXISTING IN A CULTURE THAT TELLS US TO REST IS TO ADMIT WEAKNESS AND NEEDING TO SLOW DOWN IS SOMETHING WE SHOULD BE ASHAMED OF.

IT IS OKAY TO SLOW DOWN, IT IS OKAY TO PAUSE, IT IS OKAY TO REST.

THE UNIVERSE WILL STILL BE THERE, AND IT IS OKAY TO REST. AMEN.

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"Self-Care" IN THE MAINSTREAM HAS MORPHED

INTO MEANING BUBBLE BATHS AND FACE MASKS.

SO MANY PEOPLE POSE DRINKING WATER, READING 

BOOKS, AND EXERCISING AS FORMS OF SELF-CARE.

OF COURSE, THESE THINGS ARE VITAL MAINTENANCE

FOR THE MIND, BODY, AND SPIRIT, BUT THESE

THINGS YOU SHOULD BE DOING BY DEFAULT TO

KEEP YOURSELF SHARP AND ENERGIZED.

myshanbug@ Def Planet

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June 13th 2026

Every Day is a new opportunity to thrive

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This book of the law

shall not depart out

of thy mouth; But thou

shalt meditate therein

day and night, that thou

mayest observe to do

according to all that is

written therein: for then

thou shalt make thy way

prosperous, and then shalt

have good success. 

JOSHUA 1:8

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I will both lay me down in peace,

and sleep: for thou, Lord, 

only makest me dwell in safety.

PSALM 4:8

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The Role of Silence in Testing

Silence is a test. True guidance endures silence.

False influence demands constant reinforcement.

If a message cannot withstand waiting, it is not of 

Heaven. Angels do not fear being forgotten. They

fear being misused. @myshanbug Def Planet. June 9th,

2026.

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Heaven stands not because it dominates, 

but because every being knows where it belongs

and rejoices to remain there. 

To accept one's place within order is not

it is peace.

-Structured in Light, Ordered in Obedience, Eternal

in Harmony.

The reveal. @myshanbug Def Planet

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Heaven stands not because it dominates, 

but because every being knows where it belongs

and rejoices to remain there. 

To accept one's place within order is not

it is peace.

-Structured in Light, Ordered in Obedience, Eternal

in Harmony.

The reveal. @myshanbug Def Planet

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Working in my office today. Organizing the bookshelf 1. If people blur out their book collections, most likely, it is an A.I bookshelf and not a real one.. May 25th 2026 Charla @mshanvbug Def Planert

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My Son's Wedding Vows

My son asked me to marry him and his new wife. Although, they had already married somewhere else. He asked me to give him a formal wedding and be the ordained pastor.

So I did. It was a beautiful wedding. Taken place out in nature, Fort Buena Ventura in Ogden, Utah. 

They hadn't had any vows written. So, the day before, I spent the afternoon, writing a meaningful vow, for the both of them. I hope you like it. Amen.

Welcome Family and Friends. We are gathered here today to witness the celebration of a relationship that is not new, but the acknowlegement of a new beginning. The new next chapter and of new beginnings. 

They have spent years getting to know each other, and we now bear witness to what their relationship has grown into. Today, they will affirm this bond, formally, and publicly. Today, will mark a transition as a couple not only celebrating the love between themselves, but also uniting the love between all of us. Parents, siblings, extended family and friends. Without that love today, would be far less joyous to celebrate and acknowledge a new family member inside this loving circle. 

Companionship, marriage, is a selfless act. Not just putting their needs, wants, and desires before yours, but together, a bond, not to control, but to love and respect one another. 

Marriage is not only a commitment. But when you commit with faith, to start building this relationship, you become a selfless person. In the beginning, it is not the commitment, but putting in each 100% effort. to grow, and nurture the relationship. 

Marriage, comes from that effort. Marriage is not a competition between two people. What comes from that bond that you have built. the love, the nurturing, and selflessness from the very beginning. If you continue this path, your relationship will blossom. Furthering the growing together, instead of growing apart. You keep your identity, and decisions become as one unity.

Marriage is not an ownership of one another. It is a continuum, an infinity of respect, a good listener, protector, good communication and an embodiement of selflessness. Trust, shall be honored. Being heard shall not fall on deaf ears. 

God the father, God, the son. God, the holy spirit. May he Bless, preserve and keep you. The lord mercifully with his favor, look upon you and fill you with all spiritual benediction. And grace, that you may faithfully live together in this life, and the age to come. Have life everlasing. Amen.

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Good Morning Dear Heaven. Thank you Jesus, Father, for watching over me. Thank you for your Angels.

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